Like millions of Ukrainians, Ilona Lemekha has had to leave her home, her family and her country in order to escape the war.
She got out via Hungary after managing to get a visa to come to the UK, arriving, exhausted, at Stansted Airport on Wednesday night.
Ms Lemekha, 30, is one of the first refugees to arrive in England under the Homes for Ukraine scheme, which allows British people to sponsor a Ukrainian by bringing them to live in their own house.
At the arrivals gate, Mrs Lemekha met her new host for the first time.
‘Ilona?’ Sarah Hedley asked as she saw the stranger she would be bringing home with her.
Mrs Hedley, 37, and Mrs Lemekha had only spoken via text, having found each other on a Facebook group matching Ukrainians with British hosts.
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“Seeing the desperation of all these people and these families. It’s so hard for us to comprehend how they would feel because we’ve never experienced anything like that, but you can understand when somebody needs help,” Mrs Hedley said.
Her husband and teenage children were very supportive of the decision to take in Mrs Lemekha.
They were pleased to discover that she speaks English, so they can start to get to know each other.
Ms Lemekha will now call Bedfordshire home, and while she’s glad to be safe, she desperately misses her family. Her husband and parents are still in Ukraine. She breaks down in tears as she recalls their goodbye.
“It was really difficult because you don’t understand where you’re going, how long you will be absent from your family and how long you won’t see them.”
“It doesn’t matter how much time passes, it will still be difficult,” says Mrs Lemekha.
Mrs Lemekha is from Dnipro, in central Ukraine. She knew she had to leave when her family narrowly avoided a missile attack.
“I just ran to the window and we felt the explosion. I saw people’s reaction, there is a factory nearby and people just started running.”
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Getting out of the city wasn’t easy. She drove in heavy traffic for four days to reach the border with Hungary.
She told Sky News she wanted to come to the UK because she can speak the language and because she’d heard about the sponsorship scheme and felt welcome.
Mrs Hedley and her family will receive £350 a month for hosting Mrs Lemekha, but they said they would do it for free – and even paid for her flight to London.
The government says hosts must provide accommodation for a minimum of six months.
“There’s no time limit for Ilona to stay here,” Mrs Hedley said.
“She can stay as long as she needs to and if she can’t go back to Ukraine I hope to get her husband, her parents, her pets and her sister and niece over here if possible.”
The sponsorship scheme allows Mrs Lemekha to work in the UK. She was a manager at a foreign language school in Ukraine but is looking for whatever work she can find.
“If you are given temporary refuge it doesn’t mean you should sit around doing nothing while everybody looks after you in different ways. No, you should also help the country that gave you refuge in this difficult time,” she said.
Mrs Lemekha doesn’t know when she’ll get to go home, and her message to President Putin is clear.
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“Go away from our country, this is our country, this is our land. Nobody invited you here. Mind your own business, you have lots of problems of your own.”
The Homes for Ukraine scheme has been criticised for not working quickly enough to grant visas.
Almost a week after its launch the government hasn’t confirmed how many applications have been successful, but more than 150,000 people in Britain registered their interest in becoming a host.
However, applying is just the first step in a lengthy process, with families like the Hedleys now asked to provide the comfort and safety that Ukrainians like Mrs Lemekha so badly need.
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